Coffee Group Christmas

Things have been pretty busy recently, so not much in the way of updates, although there’s a backlog of video/photos to upload that I’m gradually getting to, along with an account of the festive season.

We hosted the coffee group Christmas party this year, and it went really well. Amazinly, the weather held out, so pretty much the whole event was outside (some of the kids played in Sam’s room periodically, and Samuel gave himself some breaks in the lounge a couple of times).

I managed to take a few photos this time (being outside helped, as well as Samuel being old enough to look after himself for the most part). As usual, if the photo has Samuel in it, then it’s public. If not, then it’s only visible to flickr friends/family (or if you get a special link from me/Olyvia).

I also made an Animoto video, intending to put it up before Christmas (the party was the Sunday prior), as a holiday message. I got swamped with other things, so this is a bit late, but here it is anyway (you can watch it here directly, or download/view a higher quality (33 MB) version).

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Birthday Theme

30th birthdays seem to be happening all the time at the moment! Mine is a bit under three months away, so here are some thoughts.

When people ask what I want for a gift (for any occasion) I always suggest a book, which never goes down well. For some reason, people want to get me something more exciting or unusual – my argument is that reading is something I love to do, do regularly, made better by having more books, and so a book is a solid choice. I’ll like it just as much (maybe more) than the exotic alternative gift you’ve thought of, and chances are that the book will get more use.

Since this is a ‘milestone’ birthday, it seems that the expected thing is to ‘theme’ it somehow. I’ve decided that the theme will be “books”. If you get me a gift (and, of course, they are optional – I have plenty of stuff already, really) then it should be ‘book/reading related’:

  • A donation to some sort of book-related charity (the Foundation for the Blind would be a good choice, or your local library, or donating books to your local school, etc). I really do have plenty of ‘things’.
  • A book – could be fiction or non-fiction (there are examples on my wishlist, which I keep updated – note that “compact” view will only be a couple of pages, rather than the very long default view). I like second-hand books just as much as new ones.
  • A specific case of getting a book would be to fill out (or partially fill out) a series that I have. I unfortunately have quite a few sets of books where I am missing one or more books from the series, and it would be great to have the gaps filled in. Again, second-hand books would be fine. This can go right back to the Hardy Books books, the Dragonlance Saga, or more recent books like the Wheel of Time series.
  • A book of comics or a ‘graphic novel’ – for example, Pearls Before Swine, the Buffy graphic novels (check to see which I have first), or the Firefly novels.
  • A bookmark – some people lose socks, I lose bookmarks.
  • Some sort of book-related software. I have Delicious Library 2, so I’m not sure what this would be, but maybe some templates or scripts or addons or something will appear for DL2, or maybe a good iPhone/iPod touch application will appear.
  • An audiobook (e.g. from Audible or iTunes – I have an Audible account, so I get cheaper prices than random buyers, so I’m not sure how to best arrange this. Maybe Olyvia could buy them for you, or you could do an IOU for a specific book. I have a wishlist on AudibleKids; I have one on Audible.com as well, but I don’t think you can make it publicly available – Olyvia could get to it.
  • A donation to one of the Podiobooks I’ve enjoyed at podiobooks.com.
  • Book-related furniture, like a bookshelf or bookends. The final plan is to have a proper library in our house with permanent shelving, so a bookshelf would have to be interesting in some way.
  • A photobook, like those you can get from snapfish or through iPhoto.
  • Some sort of book-related travel (to a special store, possibly to a signing or event, although I’m lukewarm on those, or something else).
  • A subscription to a magazine, like Orson Scott Card’s Intergalactic Medicine Show, or F&SF, or maybe a local one like Foodtown Magazine.
  • If the kindle or something similar (something not so ugly, hopefully) is available in NZ, then I would be quite interested in trying one out. I’m not particularly convinced that it would suit me, but there’s only one way to know for sure.

I’m sure there are many more that imaginative minds can come up with. I look forward to it!

Of course, this theme isn’t compulsory. You can (a) not get me a gift at all or (b) get me something unrelated to books/reading, especially if you have something special in mind. However, if you do want to buy something, and are stuck for ideas, there they are.

You can see the books I already own:

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Fail, fail, fail

#1: I baked some muffins to take to Vanessa when we went to see her new place a few days ago. One batch was the crunchy lemon ones we did for Samuel’s first birthday. The other was a batch of sun-dried tomato with coriander and cornmeal, which I hadn’t made before. All went well, until I was tidying up after the muffins were cooked, and found the bowl of tomatoes, ready to add to the mixture. It turned out that it didn’t matter that much: I made a proper batch the next day and while they were tastier, the first batch was still fine.

#2: I put a couple of (English) muffin halves in the toaster to have as a snack while I was working. I came back when they were done, and found that there were already two halves in the toaster from when I had done the same thing earlier in the day and forgot to collect & eat them. Apparently, our new toaster is wide enough to cook two halves side-by-side!

#3: Rachel, Olyvia & Samuel brought me some three capsicums a few days ago from the garden (from the previous occupants – our garden is only just planted), with the suggestion that we could use them in our dinner. I got a chance to use them last night, so I diced them up and added them to some pasta sauce. The flesh inside was a little unusual, but I figured that it was just a different variety than I was used to, and I had a bit of a cough, so didn’t pay much attention. When it came time to taste the pasta sauce, I figured out the source of the cough: they were not capsicum. They were chilli. Three pretty large chilli in one little batch of sauce. It was very, very hot (at least I’d taken out the seeds!). I had a go eating it, but could only manage about a third before the heat was unbearable. Even the next day my hands are a bit sore (from cutting the chilli up).

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Caught red, blue and green handed…

Last week, Samuel figured out how to climb out of his cot (he was back in the cot for a while after we moved, to makes things easier during the Internet drought of 2008). His room at the new house has a door that he can’t open (actually, no-one can open it from inside), so when he goes to bed he can climb out and complain at the top of the stairs, but that’s it. We’ve been leaving him there, and eventually (sometimes over an hour, sometimes just a few minutes) he gives up and climbs back into bed. He’s learnt not to do this at night, but it’s still a regular occurrence during the day.Samuel, a self-portrait

Today, he had an attempt at a nap around midday, but I gave up after an hour and a half (he was in bed, but not making any attempt at sleep) and let him out for lunch. I tried again an hour or so again, since he was obviously very sleepy. After half an hour it seemed likely that he wasn’t going to sleep (and if he did, he’d wake up too late for dinner and the evening routine, so I headed back to let him out).

He doesn’t spend the whole time complaining at the (glass) door – he also plays with things in his room. As soon as I saw him I knew that there was a problem, because his mouth was much more colourful than normal…

In his room, there’s a box full of craft material (paint, pencils, pens, colouring books, and so on). He knows how to roll it out from under the table and open it, and really likes drawing. He’d helped himself to the paint and done some drawing. Unfortunately, he’s not always accurate, and had painted most of the table. And himself. And then with painted hands walked around his room touching things. Then walked upstairs touching the wall to steady himself (his walking upstairs is good, but he likes to stabilise himself sometimes). Paint on his stuff, paint on the wall, paint on the door, and paint on Samuel.Sam\'s painted table

Thankfully, this is paint that you can just wash off, and I think I’ve got rid of it all. And moved the box of drawing material into the garage.

I guess at least it’s an accident (he was just trying to amuse himself by drawing) rather than deliberate (‘if you won’t let me out then I’ll draw on everything’) while he’s this age.

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Hey Olyvia (video)

I meant to include this in the previous post, but forgot.  Here’s a little Animoto music video for “Hey Olyvia” by Geoff Smith (20MB download).

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Hey Olyvia

Olyvia turned 30 last Saturday (4th October 2008).  She probably won’t get around to writing anything about it, so in brief: in the morning she, Sam, and I went to the Matakana Farmers’ Market (good, but very difficult with a 2-year-old), then to the market at the Matakana Country Park (the one where the combined coffee group 2nd birthday was).  In the early afternoon we had lunch with Nana and Poppa, who took Samuel back with them to stay the night at Nana’s.  In the meantime, Simon, Jo, Debbie, Ben, Antony, Geoff, Vanessa, Tobey, Mike, Jacs, and Erica (did I miss someone?) came over for a BBQ dinner & party.  Everything went well – Olyvia only making it to bed at 6:30am!

For her birthday, I gave Olyvia a song.  No, not a 99c iTunes song – I commissioned a song for her.  I chose Geoff Smith as the artist – I really like his music, I figured it was likely that he would be open to doing it (and not unreachably expensive), and I thought his style of music would probably be ok with Olyvia.  A few months back, I emailed Geoff asking whether he’d be able to help out, and started the process off.  He got me to compile some information about Olyvia, we exchanged a few emails and talked over Skype (the most clear, no-lag, Skype conversation I’ve ever had, for some reason), and then he set to work in his studio writing something.

I got the song back in August (my first day in Whangarei for the year – I had to listen to it up there on headphones!), and really liked it.  Then I just had to wait weeks to be able to give it to Olyvia & see whether this was a big mistake or not!  Turns out that she likes it, and the idea, so all is well.  You’re welcome to listen to it: “Hey Olyvia”, by Geoff Smith (right-click and ‘save as’ if you want to download it, or just click to listen).

I’d definitely do this again – I think next time (if there is one), I’d write a little story and use that as the background material.  Not because I dislike how this one came out, but I’d be interested to see how well that works.  I’d definitely use Geoff again – I can’t recommend him highly enough to anyone interested in getting some music made.  Not only a great musician, but from all the contact I had with him, one of the nicest people you could meet.  Looking forward to a NZ tour!

p.s. I obviously also recommend checking out Geoff’s other music: in particular I really like “Set the Music Free”, “Rose”, “So I’m Writing”, “If This Geek Ruled the World”, “Not on the Radio”, and “Loving on a Big Hill”.  For non-tech people, his first album (available in iTunes) is probably best – for those in the tech world, “Ones and 0s” is great, too (and the concept of a ‘dynamic album’ I find really interesting and I hope others follow suit).  For those with iPhones, there’s also RingtoneFeeder.com, featuring iPhone ringtones and short (30 second) songs suitable for ringtone use.

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Samuel is two years old today!  Still no Internet access at home (and it may be two weeks yet before there is), so photos and so on will be late arriving, sorry.

This morning he got up around 7 a.m., where he found all the toys that live at Grandma & Granddad’s (we are staying here at the moment) and started playing with them before he could get to any presents.  Eventually we were able to get his attention long enough to give him his presents (“wow” to pretty much everything), and he seemed to like everything (including the train & book from Grandma & Granddad).

Unfortunately, I had to work today, so Liv dropped me off while Samuel stayed with Grandma.  Later on Liv and Sam visited (Great) Granny for a while, and then had lunch with me at Raumanga Valley Park (a bit boggy, but nice).  After a nap in the afternoon we had a little detour looking for a new bed for me & Liv and then came back to Grandma & Granddad’s for dinner.  Sam had a swim in the spa, then a good dinner, then blew out candles on his cake (another one!) before having a story and heading off to bed.

All-in-all, he seemed to have a pretty good day.  Thanks also to everyone that SMS’d or called him to say “happy birthday”.

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Stay tuned!

In brief:

  • We moved.
  • I was promised a home phone line and Internet connection either the day we moved or a couple of days later.  A week and a half later the phone line appeared and the Internet order has had to be redone.  Moral: avoid TelstraClear at all costs.  I’ll rant about them elsewhere, later.
  • Samuel and Tobey (born on the same day) had a combined birthday party last Saturday, and then we went to Regan’s first birthday party at Butterfly Creek on Sunday.  Sam’s actual birthday is, of course, this Thursday.

More on all of these exciting developments, including photos, once we finally get an Internet connection at home.

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Home, sweet home

A couple of years ago, Olyvia and I decided that we’d move from Whitehills (as a complete aside, what gives with the older-than-it-used-to-be-and-no-house imagery in the Google map?) to somewhere cheaper to try and save towards buying a house.  We really liked living there, but with Samuel on the way and going back to one income again we felt it was time to move on.  For various reasons, we ended up moving to Waitakere to live with Olyvia mother.  The original plan was to stay here for a year and then move on, hopefully buying a place of our own.  When she then decided to go to Europe for 8 weeks, we adjusted the plan to reassess things after that (early April).  When that time arrived, some factors weren’t what we expected and so we put off decision-making another three months, using that time to consider what we wanted to do.

We’ve decided that we can’t start work on our ideal long-term home at this time.  So what we’re looking for is somewhere to live for the next two to three years – we’d like to be somewhere more permanent by the time Samuel starts school.

We’ve looked a lot at our financial situation, at what mortgages are available, and what a house would cost.  Even for a reasonably rural 3-bedroom house, we’re likely to need a mortgage of around $250,000 to $300,000.  That’s at the upper end of what we can afford at the moment.

What irks me most is that nearly all of what we’d be paying in mortgage payments would be interest.  Out of $2,500 per month, we’d start off paying around $2,250 in interest and about $250 per month off the principle itself (this would gradually increase as the principle decreases, of course, but in three years doesn’t change significantly).  That $2,250 in interest is just as much ‘wasted’ money as rent is – the only difference is that the profit goes to the bank rather than the landlord.  If we can find a place to rent for less than what we’d be paying in interest, and put aside the rest of what we would otherwise be paying for a mortgage, we’d be better off.  (It’s more complex than this, of course, but this is basically what it comes down to).

This doesn’t take into consideration the largest wildcard – capital gain.  If whatever we buy goes up in price $10,000 in a year, then that’s another $800 or so a month that we’ve gained.  This could definitely change the equation.  However, it relies on the price going up, and certainly not going down.  Neither of us are financial experts, and we’re certainly not close followers of the housing market.  However, it does seem to me that in the next three years house prices could stay the same or even go down (especially if the US economy continues to struggle).  Neither of us are really comfortable taking that risk at this time.

There are other advantages to owning – we can do whatever we like to the place, there’s no landlord to kick us out, I can claim a few more expenses (because wherever we live will also be my office).  However, there’s more flexibility with renting – we can leave whenever we like (no waiting for a buyer or for the market to be in the right state), and we can adjust the amount we save if necessary (if the Euro/NZ$ exchange rate cuts my income, for example).  Considering that we have zero interest in remodelling, and we’ve never had a landlord kick us out, these come out fairly even.

At the end of the day, we decided that neither of us really have our heart set on buying at this time, and we’d rather spend a little more time renting (but living with the mortgage budget, so our savings properly increase) for the next couple of years.  If things go to plan, or at least close to it, then we should have a deposit around $50,000 rather than $20,000, which will reduce the amount of interest we end up paying (and it’s possible that Olyvia might be interested in doing some paid work by the time Samuel goes to school, which would obviously make the largest difference).

So we’ve started looking at rental properties.  We’re completely sick of living in Auckland - there are a few advantages, but so many negatives (cost, too close to fast food, too crowded, too noisy, not enough space, …) that we were ready to move back to somewhere more rural within a month or two of living here.  It also makes a lot more sense to be closer to Whangarei and Whangaparoa considering that we travel there a lot.  So the aim is somewhere between Albany and Whangarei, probably not much further north than Warkworth.  We’ll probably move in three or four weeks if we can find somewhere suitable quickly enough.

We’ll still visit Auckland occasionally – visiting Debbie, going through to visit the Kellys, visiting Poppa/Nanna, but will mostly go back to leaving Auckland for those that like it.  At first we’ll probably be travelling a little more, since Samuel will probably finish off his current term of swimming, and I’ll play out my current netball season.

If you have any thoughts, as always, let us know (in the comments here, or via email).

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Sleep, or a lack thereof

So it’s been over two weeks since Samuel switched to sleeping in a bed.  The first two nights went really well.  Unfortunately, things haven’t really continued that way (at night; during the day has been ok, although we’re still staying with him until he’s asleep).  On the Thursday he started getting up shortly after getting put to bed in the evening, and that has continued most nights since.  We decided to let him get up once and then put hi back to bed and stay with him until he is (mostly) asleep.  That works, but it takes 30 to 90 minutes, so we unfortunately lose a good part of the evening (and dinner is quite delayed).  I tried just repeatedly putting him back to bed a couple of times, but after putting him back 20 or 30 times he was just getting more upset and therefore awake.  We might change this system soon, since nothing really seems to be improving.

He sometimes wakes during the night, but when put back to bed goes back to sleep pretty quickly.  I think this will stop on its own.

The mornings aren’t great, either.  Sam wakes up between 5am and 6:15am pretty much every morning.  We used to get up around 7:15am.  It’s possible that he was waking up around that time before and just staying quiet in the cot, but I don’t think he would have been quiet for two hours.  Maybe he woke up and went back to sleep, but he’s not willing to do that now.  So this means that Olyvia and I are getting up some time between 5 and 7 these days.  I still work until the same time at night, so this means some pretty short nights.  We’re still trying to figure out what we can do about this.

Now, I understand that many people have things much worse than this.  Until now, Samuel has always slept pretty well, and we have had over a year of 12 hour (7pm to 7am) sleep, with sometimes 3 hour naps during the day.  We’re grateful for that, and just hope that we can get back to something close to that.

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